March 2017

MOTIVATE YOUR SPOUSE TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN THEM

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Spouse being your better half, deserves to stay better in all spheres of life. He/she always have higher expectations from you. Thinking as well as doing best for your spouse is a great step towards maintaining healthy relationships. Helping your mate live life with king size enthusiasm is a precious gift for a lifetime.

By offering honest and motivational attitude towards your beloved, you can really transform their mundane life into joyful and contented one. With your persistent supportive attitude not just your spouse gets encouraged, even the whole household is benefited in positive manner.

No matter whatever kind of relationship you both share, your simple and persistent supportive stance would always be welcomed by your partner. In order to support and motivate your spouse, you need to show either direct or indirect signs of approval and appreciation. For your reference some of the supportive gestures are written below=

You can-

  • Give them hugs (minimum two times a day boost happiness levels)
  • Support them in the household or official occupations
  • Cheer them up in their achievements (even if the achievements are not so big)
  • Stay by their side- physically or morally (even if they speak – ‘leave me alone’
  • Make them feel positive inside out by asking and talking about their issues, concern, resistance which may be causing disturbance for them
  • Support them in dealing all issues and relationships with positive attitude

By following these gestures, a couple can easily motivate each other and maintain the art of staying joyful in all spheres of life.

You can try more uncomplicated signs that prove your supportiveness towards your spouse. You can motivate your spouse to indulge in their hobbies. Even a step taken to become fit by doing morning exercises or yoga is also a motivating sign. Just keep on trying to be supportive and motivating for the sole benefit of your pious relationship. And by consistently practicing positive and motivational approach, the couples start confiding with their better half, evolve and become a new improved self.

We believe in bringing back the love, laughter and support within the marriage. So, come celebrate your marriage by practicing patience, consistency and loving support for your partner.

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6 Important Ingredients of A Perfectly Happy Marriage

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The foundation of marriage only stands on two facts- ‘the couple is interested in maintaining the charm of marriage’ and ‘they are not willing to give up on each other’.

We are sharing 6 important ingredients of a happy marriage. They are as follows-

  1. Enjoy differences

Couples should actually respect each other’s choices, beliefs and perspective towards life. It brings in loads of harmony like if you always prefer to wear whites everywhere, but your partner’s choice of new pastel pink shirt can bring change in monotonous routine.)

  1. Always stay supportive-

Even if your partner doesn’t ask for your support, they still wish you supported them in all walks of life. When your wife cannot make perfect chappatis, then instead of mocking or making comparison, appreciating her efforts would go long way. Find your own ways to be supportive yet corrective in positive manner.

  1. Roles and responsibilities and Gate keeping

Couples need to alter orthodox belief which suggests a lady should mainly do all the household stuff and a man is only designed to earn for the family. Time has changed and partners should act like a team in handling roles and responsibilities of marriage. Man can extend his support to maintain house and woman can earn extra income to support needs.

  1. Owning the marriage

Once married couple has their own family unit, differences are bound to come from both side of families. Husband and wife should take responsibility to convey the message to their respective families in case of any disagreement or hurt by making them understand that now they will seek their guidance at the time of need.

  1. Be interactive and take complete responsibility of your behavior or action instead of blaming on each other

It is better to talk early about any important issue. Expressing the problems in honest and positive manner can alter many issues. If a couple keep on piling up the issues then evidently it may later on trouble your bonding. A husband and wife both need to accept their own mistakes/behavior/actions. In the cases of negligence, aggressive behavior, undone works, unpaid bills/policies, careless attitude towards health and many other important issues, a couple needs to be honest in addressing the problem and together find out the solution.

  1. Keep the spark alive

Being married doesn’t mean you need to adjust your special times. Keep on dating and let the spark be alive for the whole lifetime. Surprise your partner by unexpected flirting or book surprise tickets for your partner’s favorite show, plan up a get together with special friends, taking them out for a dinner or making it extra special at home with a dim light set

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